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Mon, 18 Jun 2012 20:10:17 -0400

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I can’t freakin take this anymore! I’m exhausted from dealing with this! I STAY in an...

Sun, 13 May 2012 14:16:39 -0400

I can’t freakin take this anymore! I’m exhausted from dealing with this! I STAY in an emotionally abusive relationship with an alcoholic/pothead for 5 years and am finally brave enough and able to leave and I am the bad guy?!?? I ruined HIS life?! I want to just run away and not look back. First, I was evil for not telling him I was making plans to leave him (who would?! Especially knowing his temper?!) second, he doesn’t “approve” of the new living situation I’m taking the kids to! It’s a hell of a lot better than having them see us fight every single day and have them growing up thinking that’s how to treat a woman. Third, he’s throwing at me “what about our plans? He helps me while I’m in school, then I graduate get a good job and help him out with school.” Well that was before he got a full scholarship. And before I got tired of being treated like shit! Forth, he’s giving me a guilt trip that he has no family/friends to be there and help him, but I do. And that’s my fault?! He says I get to go live in a nice big house, with my sis there to help, get a nice job with my just finished degree, while I turn my back on him, while he has to make it on his own. And, oh no! Go to school AND work?! How hard of a life! Ya right! I did it before!

(More venting to come)

"Love can come when you’re already who you are, when you’re filled with you. Not when you look to..."

Sat, 12 May 2012 23:20:37 -0400

“Love can come when you’re already who you are, when you’re filled with you. Not when you look to someone else to fill the empty space.”

- Deb Caletti (via kari-shma)